J K Rowling, Noel Penrose & the Orders of the Phoenix
Noel Penrose writes a wonderful series of inspirational notes – primarily for his children as they turn and face the world – he calls it Dad Advice. It holds a lot of lessons for us all.
Today he sent the following…good stuff!
The author, JK Rowling, has blended logic with magic and given us much to think about with the Harry Potter series. Life lessons within the series that I particularly like are:
- Our lives are defined by the choices we make
- We must do what is right, not what is easy
- It matters not what someone is born, but what they grow up to be
- Happiness can be found in the darkest of times
- It doesn’t matter how small you are, you can always do big things
- Let others be the hero : give up the glory
- Question authority when authority is wrong
Much of what Rowling writes about is formed from her own humble experiences and a few years ago she gave an address to the students of Harvard Business School citing the benefits of failure and the importance of imagination. Key points I liked from her speech are shown below: http://news.harvard.edu/gazette/story/2008/06/text-of-j-k-rowling-speech/
- There is an expiry date on blaming your parents for steering you in the wrong direction; the moment you are old enough to take the wheel, responsibility lies with you
- She said ‘My parents had been poor and it is not an ennobling experience. Poverty entails fear, and stress, and sometimes depression; it means a thousand petty humiliations and hardships.’
- ‘But what I feared most for myself at your age was not poverty, but failure’
- JKR talks about the benefits of failure; her own failure and the lows it brought her to
- I am not going to stand here and tell you that failure is fun, so why do I talk about the benefits of failure?
- Simply because failure meant a stripping away of the inessential
- I was set free, because my greatest fear had been realized
- Some failure in life is inevitable
- It is impossible to live without failing at something, unless you live so cautiously that you might as well not have lived at all – in which case, you fail by default
- Failure gave me an inner security
- Failure taught me things about myself that I could have learned no other way
- I discovered that I had a strong will, and more discipline than I had suspected; I also found out that I had friends whose value was truly above the price of rubies
- The knowledge that you have emerged wiser and stronger from setbacks means that you are, ever after, secure in your ability to survive
- You will never truly know yourself, or the strength of your relationships, until both have been tested by adversity
- Personal happiness lies in knowing that life is not a check-list of acquisition or achievement
- Your qualifications, your CV, are not your life, though you will meet many people who confuse the two
Believe in yourself. Get back up. Finish strong. Be inspired by the dreams and achievements of others.
Picture: My wonderful Nephews.